You Too Can Become More Of A Confident Woman
There are many women out there worthy of recognition, even if they don’t become world famous. We are instantly drawn to this person by their self-assurance and positive outlook on themselves.
Its the resilience they possess against adversity in their lives and turn each stumbling block into a stepping stone to self-fulfillment and happiness. How do they do it?
1. They embrace their purpose
These women know what they are all about, they know what their purpose is in life and will use their strengths well and make sure they put themselves in both personal and professional situations where they can utilize these skills. You won’t find these women dwelling on their weaknesses, they focus on what they excel in.
They acknowledge that they have imperfections, but realize this is part of being human and make every mistake into a personal learning experience.
2. They all have self confidence rituals.
They are those people you think they’re crazy for talking to themselves. When really, they are giving themselves a pep-talk whenever they need a little extra confidence, either before a big work presentation or even working through a fight with a loved one, is what make these women stand out.
These women know what ritual works for them when they need a confidence boost. And, more importantly, they are not afraid to use it.
Michelle Obama gave sound advice with, “Well, sometimes I give myself a break. So I will retreat a moment from the fray, just to breathe. Because what I’ve learned is that my immediate reaction cannot be the deciding reaction.”
3. They enjoy spending time alone
Taking some time off for a few moments to themselves during the day to relax and feel free of others’ obligations is a must. Confident women are also empowered by going out alone, whether it is to see a movie or enjoy a leisurely dinner at a local restaurant. Confident women do not need a posse or group of friends to be happy.
These women cherish their friends and family, but also realize that it is important to have their “me” time, where they can shamelessly indulge themselves. They are not social outcasts, and need to engage in healthy conversations when they need to.
4. They refuse to buy into the media’s image of a perfect woman
These women do not let the media dictate their physical appearances or behaviors, because they know that it is all false advertising. To achieve perfection is like chasing the wind. These women are confident in their lifestyle choices, whether they decide to get married and have a family or not.
They do not feel the need to be stick thin just because it is commonly seen on TV, but instead they know the value of a healthy, active lifestyle.
Actress Jennifer Lawrence voiced her opinion about the media’s effect on young girls when she said,“I think when it comes to the media, the media needs to take responsibility for the effect that it has on our younger generation, on these girls that are watching these television shows and picking up how to talk and how to be cool.”
5. They refuse to take anything too personally
These confident women know that every day will not be all sunshine and rainbows. Letting the hard days and moments in their lives roll off their shoulders is what defines these women, because they know how to keep everything in perspective. Women who have confidence always see the bright light at the end of the tunnel and refuse to wallow in their own pity, because they know it will only harm them in the end.
Maya Angelou said, on the importance of being authentic and not focusing on the little things, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
6. They ask empowering questions
Self examination is key for confident women. They dare ask the innermost questions and will also answer them in the most honest way if they can. Asking questions that make them a better individual and have a direct correlation to their own self-fulfillment is another thing that these women have in common. They realize that asking themselves the “why me” question is detrimental to their own well-being and contentment in life.
7. They ask what they can do to improve the world
Confident women realize that living a life of self-fulfillment is a selfish thing. Confident women also want everyone else to achieve a greater thinking. Asking themselves how they can use their strengths to make the world that they live in a better place is a common trait for these women. First Lady Eleanor Roosevelt, was often referred to as the “First Lady of the World,” because of the self-assuredness that she displayed while fighting for human rights.
This selflessness is one of the key factors for confident women, since they know what they are capable of and would like to share their talents with others.
Inspired by Life Hack